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EmailLadies, learn to like yourself and see
yourself as a prize that men should want. Say to yourself, “I am beautiful”.
Say to yourself, “I am amazing”. You are girlfriend material to any decent man.
You do not need a man’s adoration to enjoy your life. A man should love you for
who you are. A man should respect your God given characteristics. Look into a
mirror and practice saying…
“I want a man. I don’t NEED a man”
Now go buy that great dress that shows
off your body in a lady and classy way. Show pride. Show self-respect. Love
yourself! If you do not see yourself as a special woman who any man would be
lucky to be with, then you will never be able to radiate that energy that men
find irresistible.
You must love yourself because nobody
will love you more than you! There is only one person that you are guaranteed
to live a life long relationship with, and that person is you!
Lower your expectations in the type of
man you think you can win. Mr. Perfect does not exist! If God made a perfect
person, then that perfect person was Jesus. You will experience frustration if
you do not find the man that meets your high expectation.
I know you get lonely, ladies. Do not
let your emotions reveal neediness. A lot of guys are used to women being
needy. Hide that and he will notice a change in your attitude. He will feel
insecure due to your independence. Suddenly, you will start drawing him or
other men toward you. Make him chase you. Make him need you. Make him want you,
like you want him. Shift the polar direction of the vibe!
Do not throw yourself on him. Do not be
easy. Make him earn you. Men like challenges. A challenge is a reflection of
quality. If you want him to commit to be your boyfriend, then you need to be in
control. Take the driver seat.
Never let him assume you are single. He
needs to see quality in you and ask if you are taken or not. Look busy. Act
popular. Make him schedule a date that includes dinner, a movie, quality time
and NOT sex.
Make him wait for sex. Sex is a prize
that drives men. Never give a treat to someone until they earn it AFTER time.
Rewards that are easy and quick to earn become worthless prizes. After you
start having sex with him, control how often he gets more. Sex is power. Men
need sex. Women control the power. No matter how good in bed he is, resist the
urge of letting him dictate when you do it. No more booty calls. No more being
friends with benefits. He will start to ask, “What? What do you want?” And your
answer shall become, “Respect. I want respect” because you are powerful and in
control.
