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EmailIt takes skills and charm to land that knight in shining armor. However, it’s far more difficult to keep him after you got him. Men find excuses to look into another direction with all the competition around. Here’s a few things most women do that chases him away:
· Whining
· Begging
· Throwing around ultimatums
Ultimatums don’t work well
Do you find yourself saying things like…
· “If you don’t commit to me, then I’m walking out of this relationship”
· “I can’t wait forever for you to marry me”
· “I’m not getting any younger”
· “I’m getting older and eventually I can’t have kids”
There are a few men that will give in to your demands, however men with options will not. Of the men that actually surrender… a few of them would resent you for trapping him in a relationship he didn’t really want. When it comes to love and true commitment, ultimatums do not work. Men need to believe they made the choice to commitment on their own.
