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EmailMany women think, “Why is he not into me that much?”
The answer: He doesn’t see you as girlfriend material.
I’ll explain. Ladies, you have a list
of what you are expecting in a man. If a guy hit on you and he lacks the
characteristics and qualities you expect, then you will reject him as a
potential partner. Well, guess what? Men have a list of their own.
Here are the points men look for when
picking a woman
· They
want to be an alpha male stud
· They
want to be your security
· They
want to dominate
· He
want to select a woman he can brag about
· Men
want women who are honest, who he can trust completely, and who are not likely
to sneak around and sleep around with other guys.
· A
woman who will make an effort to please him.
· A
woman who makes an effort to look her best.
· A
woman who is submissive and no attitude
· Someone
who is not too loud.
· Someone
who won't nag a lot
· Someone
in shape and attractive
The list goes on.
MAKE HIM BEG
Here’s a tip, memorize a few items on
the list. Then display those to him. Next, you need to know the secret attitude
to make him beg for you more.
Instead of saying, “I’m with him
because I need him” say instead, “I’m with him because I want him”.
This level of confidence is attractive
to men. Women are fully aware that other women are attracted to the same guy
she has. But, the reverse is also true. Guys check out other dude’s women! If
your body language say, “I’m yours only because you satisfy me, but I’m free to
leave when I want” then he will do whatever it takes to continue to please you.
Let’s keep that top secret ok?
Here are some things you don’t do
· Don’t
get too emotional in public.
· Don’t
overreact to things he do
· No
timeline. Don’t give men a deadline to commitment. Make him move faster by
showing off your attractiveness. When he feels competition from the other men’s
attention you’re getting, he’ll generate his OWN deadline.
· Sex.
Are you a woman he can be sexually satisfied with without feeling the desire to
cheat? Play games during sex like role plays. Spice things up. And communicate
during sex to see what he likes and don’t like. (Hey, make him satisfy you
too).
· When
you meet men, don’t say “I don’t want
anything serious”or you’re ok with being “friends with benefits”. Men
believe women and hold them up on those statements. Those statements become
men’s excuses to bailout.
How to control those
“Divorced Men”
Face it, one of the type of men that
are hardest to claim and make beg for you are those that been married already.
They are divorced for a reason. Their last relationship didn’t work, and they
wanted out. Men like this either take their time (a long time at that) or never
want to commit ever (and I mean EVER) again. Well, maybe not “Never”, and
here’s how to change their minds…
Wounded men like to tell their stories.
Listen to their stories, and take their side. After you two become steady
friends, switch it up on him. Stop defending his back all the time. Stop
calling all the time to check up on him. Make him step up and come to you!
Trust me, he will if he feels that he’s going to lose you.
Don’t mess with
married men
Trust me, 90% of the time, men stay with the woman he married. You’re just his mistress. If you meet a guy who’s taken and you’re interested and attracted to him, just say, “Look me up when you’re single” and walk away!
