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Practice is very important when
learning how to approach a woman. Many guys need a few drinks before they are
ready to approach a very attractive woman. Drinks are not necessary. Many guys
think they need to successfully get a woman’s attention and/or phone numbers
before he can build confidence. Wrong again. You can build confidence and learn
to approach without drinking by simply taking a deep break, remain calm, and
mentally think “This is just practice. I expect to get rejected. No big deal!”
Remember, you can simply just move on to the next candidate. In all honesty, it
will get easier because nearby women will get jealous of the attention you’re
giving another woman. They will be more open!
To become more successful with picking
up women, you need to practice. Practice makes you more confident. Confidences
take time. Give yourself time. Do not expect to hit a home run in just a few
swings of the bat. Try this, step outside your comfort zone by approaching the
prettier women. It’s called baptism by fire. It will make your skin thick
faster. Once you have been rejected, yet you remain persistent, approaching
women will become second nature.
There are a few men that will still struggle after trying everything mentioned so far. If you are one of them, then you need to establish social skills first. Try starting up a brief conversation with someone. It does not matter what the conversation is about. Just ask a few general questions and engage them in small talk. Next time you walk into a Wal-Mart, Target, Kmart or some other superstore, approach a female and ask for advice on the same product she is looking at. Example: A woman is looking at cereal. Ask her what brand of cereal she like the best. After she gives an answer, ask her why. Is it sweeter and healthier? Make her feel important and knowledgeable. Meanwhile, KEEP A SMILE on your face! Practice talking to random women, and get them to smile. After you achieve that, WALK AWAY. This exercise will build your social skills, and put you in her spotlight. That’s right, she never knew you existed until you initiate that conversation. Now she knows what you look like, and will notice you for the rest of the day. Once those skills become natural, apply it in the bar or clubs! After you start a conversation with a woman, and walk away, you will build attention to women there.
