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EmailMen will do guy stuff whether they are
in a relationship or not. The last thing women want to do is block them from
those activities. They are:
· Hanging
out with buddies
· Watching
TV
· Playing
sports
· Business
· Alone
time
· Repair
and building
· Cookouts
Hanging out with
buddies
is important because men often
cannot be themselves or behave specific ways around women. Women find certain
behaviors or words men say, offensive. Yet, men must stay true to their gender
upbringing. A man’s escape to being ‘a man’ would be to hang out with other
guys.
Watching television
is a common activity
both men and women should never be removed from. Television is what helped
raised us as a child. It kept us busy as our parents, siblings or babysitter
sat us in front of it to stop us from mischievous behaviors. We trust
television. We learn a lot from television. Television taught us more than our
teachers and parents combined. So, do not come between a man and his TV.
Sports are important
social activities.
They teach us how to persevere, how to loose graciously, how to coordinate busy
schedules, how to keep your body healthy, they entertain and keep us
competitive. A man has everything to gain by playing sports. Women should not
restrict her man from it.
Alone time is good. Men (and women)
need alone time. It allows us to calm down and collect our thoughts. If women
refuse men to have their privacy with their alone time, then chances are that
the guy will lose interest in the relationship.
Let him repair, build
or do whatever his hobbies are. Do not stop a Mr. Fix-it from doing
his job. Do not stop a man from enjoying his hobbies like building.
A lot of guys love
cookouts.
It is a time for him to show off his grilling skills and become liked by
everyone that wants his food. It is a moment of pride and bonding through food.
Unrealistic
expectations
Lower your expectations simply put. The
more you expect from a man, the more frustrated you will become. Mr. Perfect
does not exist. Mr. Semi-Perfect does not exist either. Do not expect the same
prince charming you grew up watching on Walt Disney movies. Another point is,
do not expect more from your man than you can give back to him. If you are
expecting a man to be light years above you in quality, then lower your
expectations. Not everyone can be a Sugar Daddy. Eventually he will want to end
the relationship and move on because he cannot live up to your expectations.
Do not try to change
him
Accept him for who he is. If a man is going above and beyond to earn your attention, then remember: this is temporally because he is chasing you. Chances are, your man will lower himself in quality after you been with him for a while. At this point, women attempt to mold him back into his earlier self. Think of it this way: Imagine a man demanding you to lose weight. Imagine a man demanding you to go back to your ‘dating’ version of yourself when you two first met. If that feels uncomfortable to you, then do not try to mold him either. Some women get tired of waiting for their perfect man, so they get who they can get. After she gets her man, she attempts to mold him into what she likes better. Do not do that. While women do motivate men to better himself, remember: he need to better HIMSELF.
